Wife or the mistress

How lucky is a romantic dreamer. Despite his marital status as a married man and the head of a family, he lives an innocent childhood love story in which the renewal of youth and desire for life.

He may actually clash with a person other than his imagination and lose love, he may exchange feelings and enter into the struggles of "the wife or the mistress" and lose peace of mind, he may tell his wife and lose his home and children, or he may violate his principles and lose his respect for himself.

The move of his switch from the realm of imagination to the maze of reality may lead to heavy losses that are indispensable.

When he was a student in the college, he tried to find a committed Muslim girl so that he could bond with her and complete his life, and after he had explored all the girls who were with him, his eyes fell on one of them, and she was as he wanted, and after thinking about her (and in a rational and not lustful way) he decided with himself: God willing To submit to her.

He was convinced of her, but at an average rate, and they got married, praise be to God, and days and years passed, and God blessed them with two sons and expected a third, and praise be to God ..

But the girl he knew and loved from childhood remained in his heart, and how much he wished to be his wife. He kept in contact with her, as they say that the chemistry between them is strong. He does not wait until he meets her and often climbs the walls. This love developed into a mutual love between the two parties, and he loved her more than himself, and he could not imagine his life without her, and she really deserves this love.

He is unable - let alone - to forget this girl, because she occupies all his thinking, because she has all the specifications that any man would want. Elegant, spontaneous, playful, putting joy on his face at every meeting.

He became confused and mistaken - living in bitterness because of his lack of integrity and loyalty to his wife or lover. Does he live with love, fantasy and romance and escape with his beautiful story from the claws of reality?

And to treat his mistress as poets deal with the moon and stars. Whom enjoys staying up late and observing, writes poetry and prose, and paints a new painting for it on the ceiling of his room every night or forgets, to be sane and avoid catching the stars, otherwise his hands will be burned, so the moon is in fact a dark rock with volcanic regions with no water and no life.

"Whenever the soul is despaired of something, it rests from it"

The beauty of his story is that it is lossless. He did not lose his home, nor his wife or children, he did not lose his respect in his workplace as a disciplined man, and he did not lose his moral battle in front of his mirror - in the end, he did nothing but ride the magic carpet of words and stroll through the realms of fantasy and romance.

His current position is devoid of miserable drama in all its forms, neither abandonment, nor nostalgia, nor pain, nor groaning, nor struggles between the mind and the heart, or love and duty.

His gains are a state of foundness and euphoria to drawing his mistress from childhood, a lot of hormones of happiness, elation, and relaxation when caressing him, pure love accompanied by abundance and quality in creativity at moments he steal from his work, enthusiasm and a desire for life and continuity that gets missen from a marriage with a specialty of more than five years.

Enthusiasm and a desire for life and continuity is a habit that has gets missing for those who have been married to a major for more than five years.

What would you advise your romantic dreamy friend to do? Should he throw his job and follow his lover of drawing?